When it comes to these things...(11-23-2010)

Dear Mystery, the essence that provokes, the feeling of desire that hungers for more.

Dear reflection of myself in the mirror’s image, that tells a backward tale of a young man’s morning hair, yet to be bathed.

Dear myself when I was five, discovering my body, its height, its color, its volume within a reclining chair.

Dear summertime days that I didn’t make art, that I didn’t sentiment trees or discuss romance.

In the afternoon you will leave me, and I will cook a meal. I will ponder my schedule, my words, my thoughts, my plans. I will take a bite and eat it, and maybe my mind will become empty.

Flowers don’t bloom in the winter, they come in the later spring. This makes sense to a gardener. Men in misery will drink their beer, ignoring the distance between us and them. Scared men will kiss their mates, making wild love, begging existence to stay where it is. You’ve left me no choice but to consider these things, dissecting the skin to discover organs. Within the process of looking, so many minds wonder, will they continue to feel?

I go first when it comes to these things, diving in a pool, maybe never to return. In the context of all things, the landscape remains the same. The sun still sets on the overcast day, and my gut wants to pull over to see it. My hand will reach for yours, greeting the cold surface of the car seat.

Is there some way to transmit this to you, void of intention, a pure gift to see?

In the context of all things I am awake to some problem, to which I face the reality of misery and protect myself in romance, but I am a slave to it all until I see it as it is. And then, without pride, something beautiful occurs. Neither you nor I can describe it. I am passionate to respond, and that joy translates into muffled sounds, a language no misery can bare. And in the context of it all, I am learning to be alone, and why it seems to make true love come to life.

Four men crossing a bridge. (8-25-10)

Caught in the passion of my emotion, over petty arguments with my mother, I passed over the bridge. It was the same bridge that I stopped near, pulling the car aside from the road, to speak to my friend about my concerns of when my lovers have mistreated me. There I asked her if she thought that he might continue to think of me. She told me that he probably hasn’t allowed himself the thought. While she spoke of facts, indicating he was afraid, I watched, observing the outline of the trees in the moon’s light, wondering if a police officer might question my business there, but no patrol car ever came.

That day, I saw four men walking on the bridge in a small parade of humanity. Where were they going? Four Indian men, walking in the sun, dressed in polo’s and Khakis, and then there was I, young, observing four adults, maybe three generations, crossing a bridge, possessing grace.

I’ve been thinking of that bridge. I’ve been thinking of the past, how it smelled, how he smelled, what it felt like to have him close enough to remember the warmth coming off him, or how the moon’s light can’t outline a man’s body through the haze of a city sky. I think I was happy then in the drama of those days and nights. There was no direction, there was no wind. There was only snow, and cold, and his impulse to kiss me because it was what he wanted, and how then, and only then, he deserved me, and I him.

Was it just a ruse to the ego or heart? Was it only then that I’ll know lust and letting go, or is there, within this order, a more complex way to fall, so I might once again feel entranced with life itself? Does it require other halves, twenty marbles to fill a jar with some spaces, empty creases in between?

Get me out of the memory that says to feel the ghost’s hand, and to be alive on the floor in my room. Get me out of the mind and into a practice, preserving my name until I die. Get me down from the spirit, and into the land so I can face loneliness and love her.

News of your arrival (8-15-10)

If tomorrow doesn’t bring news of your arrival, then what have I left to do but wait? Waiting is the game I play, faking that I’m patient, when really, there liviving, burning in my gut, for union and the surprise that you’ll join me in this thought. Neither I nor you can conceive the great day, where we will say hello to the death of boundary. Neither one of us can conceive this union till we’re willing. If tomorrow doesn’t bring news of your arrival, maybe I’ll leave, fighting with all things, pretending only gentle things possess wisdom. Maybe, I’ll be the one to run from commitment. I’ll be a hypocrite if I complain any further. What’s the point of living if it’s fear that I allow to cradle me in solitude, rather than jumping into your arms, feeding us both with wild passion. What if I chose to stay and forget the words of friends, only to have the moment I said I was too afraid to have. If tomorrow doesn’t bring news of your arrival, it is then that I’ll decide.

Some TV (8-14-10)

Where are you today, that you couldn’t join the crowd; the people willing to share beyond the barriers of where their heart resides. Couldn’t you turn off the TV, or at least tease me till laughter about how I hate this show? You know, some of us could use a little entertainment of your body or your mind. Something to validate how lonely we are, but maybe if I had your hand on my hip, or your tongue in my thoughts, speaking a language so foreign to my complex needs, that I can’t even articulate between the discernment of desire or genuine need. So I’ll struggle instead, finding the roles of response, and the commander with the instruction book; but published and authored by whom?

My only sense of resolve is in the company of my oldest and most familiar companion that mirrors the ideal, but without ever saying what is actually so. I’ve told my friends about him, and their responses differ all the time; some wanting me to shut my mouth, while others will cheer, “Right on! Keep on fighting man. I can’t end my appreciation in finding such refreshment that there is another fighting like me. We haven’t won the war, but we haven’t lost it either. I’m so happy to see we’re on the same side.” Rarely do I say that I’m on anyone’s side, and I’ll find myself each moment indecisive of where to agree, because my real heart doesn’t care, and only wants to be close to another. It’s only when confusion runs through the community do I shout, “Everyone, shut up, for my words need to be known.”

Never, it seems, can resolve be found, and I find blank stares from American men, while I talk of responsibility. Every once-in-a-while do you find a few houselights on, but who wants to live in only the attic or basement? Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure there are many romantic things that can occur in either location, but for now I’d like to sit with you joyfully, while together we can watch some TV.

How great you are. (7-7-2010)

It is in the moment when we first met, with the sincere interest in you, your fame, your weakness, your heart. It is quiet when you touch me, alive in your smile. I know breath in a humid night, and the chances to be awake as I walk toward the mailbox. I very well understand the consequences for love, and the price to be paid when you speak such kind words. It is so easy to cherish, so simple to smile, and amazing to have thoughts that praise this. I practice this in image, created from sentiments of now. Yes, to your words. Yes, to your mouth. Yes, to the drama that made you. Your invited to see the sun, the flowers in my hands, the language that will do all it can, just to tell you how great you are.

In a Stand-Still (7-2-2010)

In the morning air, the moon could be seen a quarter empty, while a star served near to be her companion. It was summer, yet the air was like fall, still the flowers greeted me on my walk. The haze in the dome stood violet, facing the particles of orange, but I was not restrained from receiving a sense of the atmosphere. There was an overwhelming beauty, incomplete, awaiting eyes, ears, and a sense of its fragrance, or conversation that could confirm or compare how and what it was.

Thought could be of recollection, and then there was opportunity for nothing to occur except the beauty that would exist, only if I confirmed it. I paused on the sidewalk. Before, I watched my envelope get stuck in the slot of the box, and I recalled the words I had written. I could have taken it back, but there was no word unkind or gossip that ruined thoughts. I let it go. In the stand-still, I faced the sky. I thanked both the creator and its witness.

The Eclipse (6-27-2010)

Is it endangered? These moments, the memory creators, are they rare or otherwise unpracticed? I see them plenty and rich, and still there is no more or less suffering and madness dwelling between life’s events. Does it stir curiosity to know what practice derives sentimental behavior in the now rather than months, years, or lifetimes later; where you’re appreciating while also enjoying today? Is there a way to transfer my thoughts that existed in the aroma of water splashed onto rocks sitting in the sun? I recorded the wonder of what language could describe what it was like. How do I tell you that the smell held warmth, heat of the sun, given a smell, given a scent as white stones reveal a bolder color when you splash a liquid upon it? I watched from the stones two companions sit together, constructing their ideas into forms and natural colors. That morning I looked for the eclipse. I got up and found them sleeping on the couch. I decided not to wake her and instead I looked for the moon alone. There was a glow in the morning of the partially lit sky, with a haze over the horizon, and a white planet, probably red, hiding somewhere behind clusters of trees, and I wished I had seen it, but I was satisfied to just be awake. I watched before a man, so familiar I know all of his names. He spoke of his professions and offered her a gift. Please, complete my work, and call it to be your own. Take my thoughts, my words, my practice; take me with you after I am gone. She responded with excitement, “Really?” she asked him, almost praising how honored she was, and I cried privately to myself. Gifted I was to be this witness.

Even after a shower, the smell of the creek didn’t leave my hair. My skin was warm of the sun, and my face withheld the light. My thoughts were empty while flashes of the day might visit for a moment. I would remember how I turned over rocks so my feet could grip the stones under water, rather than slip in the algae. My body ached from this bridge’s construction, and I was grateful to be this flexible. I photographed these moments, but these pictures only reveal to me my obsession to love life while it’s happening. I want to take that, and this, and that, keeping it to myself, letting it out every once in a while, sharing it with friends at times, and visiting the memories when I feel alone to recall the context of my life.

Still I understand misery. I can get the suffering, and I know firsthand what it means to have someone cling to you, so you can share this joy together. Before my companions left, we sat in each other’s company. There I told them stories about the love that clings to me, the love I willingly choose to be involved in. We enriched each other’s lives for a half hour more, delighted that we came to know one another. We hugged each other goodbye so briefly, believing it would be soon before we saw each other again.

I tried to rinse out my hair, but like I said before, the aroma of the creek remained. As I drove, the pale shyness crept into my body and I felt like the white skin that I was hours earlier before I entered the grace that the sunlight provided. My body was weak from standing in the flowing river. My heart was nervous, but it settled holding hands, and I breathed, and I sighed. I read a story, then I talked a lot, and I found great satisfaction with the day. Promise yourself to love in these days. Give me your permission past your judgment to unify with spirit, grace, and tender words that express honest feelings so you tremble realizing how good this is for you to love. Then breathe, then write, then paint or cry, then talk about it, and then there is tomorrow. It leaves me with an old photograph of my youthful parents, curious to know who was the one who decided to photograph that moment. In it, they were holding hands.

The Day's Dream 6-16-2010

Maybe you wouldn't know this,
but at 5 o'clock the sky turns blue.
It was the same blue that outlined the
contour of your face in your room that night.
You held yourself above me, beaming
a smile as you observed how I responded
to your affection. An abeyance of
you holding me as I caressed your face.
A moment to share a story of your hand,
and how I didn't have to ask for your kiss,
or for your fingers to grasp mine so
fluently, so freely.
It was dark. You couldn't see the stars,
but the night when I kissed you, it was
one of the first things to be noticed.
I invited the day. I gave it to you.
I watched it slip from my hand
into the air. You caught the stars in
your sleep. I caught the day's dream.

(Practice Poetry Blurb 2)

We could have talked for hours and nothing would have been accomplished. It is because the foundation he built, that expected a lover to provide the passion, lacked the instructions to be self-motivated. Still he spoke the faulty language while I spoke romantic rhyme, and neither one of us knew each other better in blather. It didn’t stop the game. We went on, and I fell in love with all the dangerous denial. Forever ago I might have stopped myself before it even started. Forever ago I had something figured out. Forever ago, rationality didn’t exist. That day I still didn’t understand what it would mean for me to love a man. More and more days pass between us, and neither one of us can speak a word. In ways I feel lied to and disrespected, and yet I understand things that were misunderstood. It’s disgusting when claimed love is a lie. Touch is beautiful, but when the mind is interrupting, demanding attention, and you never speak up, how am I to respectfully cherish silence? Listen my dear, to all things sentimental. I said listen! I’m telling you how subtle it is, trying to magnify beauty beyond what it is intended. While this is occurring, in your mind you’ve kept the parked car running in the driveway. You are not here with me, and instead of making love, instead of understanding the power in storytelling, instead you could be witnessing old bodies embrace death coming to realize it’s awakening significance, instead you could be allowing the discovery of language communicate your deeper understanding as you admit there’s more to this sadness and the excuses,rather than blaming exhaustion behind why you’re not feeling yourself. Instead of making art that transforms its viewers to believe there are good people in this world, you would rather have me be the one to jump so you won’t be seen as a coward.

I would much rather come to understand how rain and grey clouds establish lighter feelings in my heart. I would rather wear your clothes as a badge of honor and to see my body in a bath saying ‘this belongs to him.’ I don’t know the rain or the clouds, or how the grass responds having two men lay upon it. We never shared activities that invited the dust or mountains. We shared conflict and hid ourselves from vacations that could possibly allow you to know me better, and I imagine you defeated when insulted. If only we learned never to insult ourselves. Permit me to be rude for a while as I claim back the gap in my chest, that holds water between either nipple. I won’t be washing out this mouth today with bleached out water that hides the evidence of my shadow. I won’t be making any mementos just to demonstrate charity. Instead I’ll be content. I’ll be fine knowing the pool of water on my chest. I’ll be fine trying to make sense of when the breeze is cool or warm and whatever memory they may provoke. I’ll be fine writing letters.

You’d better believe that nature’s going to respond to this. She’s going to teach me new songs, especially ones with solos and only a 3 person chorus. I can hardly imagine what that day could be like, but the body seems to know more than my intelligence. The freckle marks on my upper half have spoken to trees before and they’ve claimed to know all about cultures. Their speeches are magnificent, “We know lovers. We’ve seen them in every park. And our indoor cousins know all that happens in beds. We understand the night and all the discussions under the blanket. We could hear the prayers to die gracefully. We were naked too as men smoked cigarettes, witnessing your lungs pant, and your whisper of gratitude. Within our watch we saw everything you were offered by the sun. It’s too bad you were indoors on those days, and it’s only now that you’re seeing more than grey. There is more to its gloominess, but we saw you already knew this. Let us introduce you to purple and blue. Speak your mind with us, and we’ll introduce new companions. We’ll find for you clouds, and we’ll point them all out. Come on out to this wild party and throw into the air all your concerns for men that are gay and all their lovers.”

It couldn’t be that easy could it? Just to walk in the yard and say, “Hey, me and my fellow homosexuals are done with all the non-sense of culture, bars, and misunderstanding each other. We’re all done being so alone. We know our names now, and we’re going to call each other by it.” I don’t think they know any angels. I don’t think they know how things really smell outside of cologne. Lets lift up our shirts and find out. I’ll be sure not to look in your eyes. I’ll have coffee instead of spiced tea, and I’ll let you know if I can make it to dinner, but I’ll tell ya now the chances are I won’t be available because my schedule is all over the place, but never take it personally.

(Practice Poetry Blurb 1)

‘How’, the word of all analysis, the starting point of philosophy, and ‘why’, its faithful companion, always curious to discover solutions to confidence, doubt, and courage to participate in living. In spite of the storm of thoughts some hands blindfully, or maybe enlightened, will grab their lovers without hesitation. It is judged constantly by the suffering, while I contemplate what it means to be gay in America. The effort is empty and meaningless because a report of jealousy seems as worthless as complimenting trees for growing. It carries on without you.

We all want to know the night, but it will not hold substance without hearing that fragile voice speaking into a microphone, telling the crowded room with deep, shivering breaths, how she’s lost a friend to death and a lover to misunderstanding. It is the same as how the letters of the word listen spell silence. We begin with “How?” and “Why?” How many? And why not? Happiness and meaningfulness require a particular commitment where your responsibilities are more subtle than language or breath.

Clearly, intelligence and the body are not familiar with each other, for I am just as curious to know the night and its songs, and its moves during intelligence’s celebration of discoveries made in the day time. It says, “allow me to know blue deepening to dark violet and its carbon orange companion when I walk down the sidewalk touching the hand of the man I will lay in bed with. Let me laugh at jokes and sublte comments that confirm we’re getting along. Don’t hide how this is love. Don’t hide love behind drama and absolute compatibility. Let her be seen in the effort; like that scarred girl telling us her story in a microphone. Just let me know the breeze that evening and I’ll record the rest that happens. I’ll let myself remember how his hands treated my body. I’ll decide if the weather’s nice enough to leave my window open. I know how to decipher if he wants my hand in his while walking, or if I should beg for his lips to come closer.”

Intelligence will gladly stand up upon hearing such good news, and she’ll command herself out of the body, but never leave. She instead only shifted her focus. What it is to see yourself come into the now, watching it all go by.

I wonder if I’m allowed to ask the impossible question, “could you stop asking for privileges and rights?” You totally deserve them and I’m sure you realize that, but I’m tired of watching such queer occurrences fall upon your identity. Would you give it all up for me?

Living is Loving...(5-5-2010)

Getting ready for dinner, Robert checked the temperature of the water before entering. Jeff stepped in after him. He rinsed the shampoo out of his hair and began rubbing Rob’s back with the bar of soap.

“Rob, I can’t help but say this, but I feel uncomfortable going to dinner tonight.”

“What’s the Problem?”

“We’re going out to dinner with Nick and his partner.”

“Yeah, so?”

“So? Years ago you use to write letters to this guy. You told me you had kissed him and almost went further. I know it was long ago, but you kept in contact with him since. Even with all the messy drama that has occurred in your life as a result of knowing him. You two have almost dated but somehow things didn’t turn out that way.”

“We’re friends Jeff.”

“You can’t honestly tell me you don’t have feelings for him still.”

“I do have feelings for him.”

“These feelings have ruined some of your previous relationships because you haven’t let him go. How can I trust that this isn’t going to occur again, and that I am just a fool in the midst’s of unresolved emotions?”

“I am afraid you are misunderstanding me. Jeff, I am in a relationship with you now.”

“Dam straight you are, and I don’t want you to forget it. I have been nothing but faithful to you.”

Robert interrupted, “And I honor you for that, but I need you to understand me. The reason I left my previous partners over this is because they didn’t take the opportunity to understand me. I am giving you a chance right now.”

“What am I suppose to understand? You’ve admitted to me that you have feelings for another guy. How do you expect me to act? It’s like you’re telling me you’d like to be with someone else.”

“I am not asking your permission to have an affair with someone whom I am attracted to. These feelings are also more complicated than a mere physical attraction, but also the complexity of sharing moments with this person, talking to them, doing activities together. There is a history that I can’t just tell my mind to forget about it. I am asking for you to understand me and my desire to care for others. I can’t possibly give you one hundred percent of my affection, rejecting everyone else that has ever come before you. I am explaining to you that yes, there are indeed feelings left over in me for someone that I was never with romantically, but there are also feelings left over that are trying to salvage a failed romance into a friendship. They are complicated, but I am not asking if I can act upon my sexual desires for my own benefit.”

“If you keep doing this, meeting with people whom you have feelings for, I am afraid that you will go astray, loving others while you piss on the so-called committed relationship you have right now.”

“How can I love you in this commitment if I don’t honestly acknowledge the true feelings that are indeed inside of me? How can I embrace you now if I ignore the history that made it?”

“How am I to sit here comfortably knowing that your thoughts may be of another man?”

“What more of a guarantee do you want Jeff? I promised you a monogamous relationship. I am acknowledging that we are together, what about my actions of coming home every night to our bed; me in your arms?”

“I want to know for certain that the space that exist between your arms is the place for me to reside.”

Robert embraced Jeff. They stood under the running water in silence with the glow of the afternoon sun hitting the shower curtain wrapped their naked bodies.

“Jeff, when a couple gets involved with each other, what are they supposed to be doing?”

“I don’t understand.”

“We’re together. So now what? What do we do?”

“We do what couples are suppose to do.”

“Which is what exactly?”

“Isn’t it obvious? They’re suppose to be loving each other.”

“LIVE Jeff Live! They’re suppose to live together, with each other. Living IS LOVING, Jeff! LIVE, and I don’t mean just with each other.”

“Well, what do you mean then?”

“They’re suppose to help each other out through each other’s shit. They deal with it all the way companions do for one another. Yeah there’s the sex, and all that good stuff. You talk about being with you, right now. Where the hell do you think I am now Jeff? I am right here, sharing with you my feelings for another man, telling you I am still committed to you. I am letting you know this, see this, see me! I am filling you in Jeff. Where are you? In all of this your mind is more distracted by the fact I have feelings for Nick rather than why I’m even sharing this with all with you. I stand before you, telling you the honest truth. Let me translate this for you. I love you, and I tell you all of this because I love you. Right now, I am with you. I am committed to our relationship. There is space in my heart for other people, but this does not decrease the value of our commitment. If anything, this deepens us to honesty as we share our insides. Ideally, instead of you seeing me as a confused, unfocused lover giving his heart away to outside parties, I would rather that you see me as a person able to cherish his real feelings while still honoring and respecting his commitments.”

“What do you wish to receive out of going to dinner with Nick?”

“I wish to see a friend. I would hope the experience provides for me further closure upon my romantic feelings while strengthening our friendship. We will practice sitting with each other, doing nothing else but just being together. The way I see it, this gives me the chance to love him appropriately because we are livening. I am living with him as a friend, while living with you as a partner. In this way I am loving you both.

In the way I am intimate with God. (4-5-2010)

Never before have I been so close, so calmly near the witness,
where I can run in the grass, panting from my lungs,
awake to the sun and mountains.

I give the credit to my mom, to the letter I wrote my aunt,
the phone call that reconnected me to my friend.
With them here in my heart, with a romantic embrace
only a few days behind me, with my lips making contact
with romance as she reintroduces herself.

Shall we awake to detachment of reputations that will
demand what is too soon and what is too late?
Can we please let go of our minds whose obsessive desire
to create absolutes, which gets in the way of me holding
you down, showing you with my wild lips how much I
desire to be close to you in the way I am intimate
with God.

I will throw myself into passion, vaporizing in
essence and out of form, I dedicate myself to patience,
declaring myself to love. I will bound myself to these
precious vows whether you participate with me or leave.
And I will always stay deep in this commitment, and be
a companion to the brave and willing.

(4-4-2010)

It is beautiful how after years
of ruling the land, after years
of saying, "No, not that!"
The mind observes the grace in the heart,
hands her his crown and scepter saying,
"Here, turn me off. You take over
for a while."

The Poets Prayer (4-3-2010)

You have to dig for your clothing after a shower.
Its practice is all too familiar.
The stomach quakes upon discovering his shirts.
It quakes when sitting in places you’ve shared together.
It quakes at ideas of driving where he might be.
Should I call him, “How are you? Are you doing okay?”
The tightness in your being, in your throat and in your chest
is met with the greeting of intelligence, “Not today.”
“Okay,” you say, annoyed at how these situations never seem
to uncover those trying to dig into life as deeply as you.
You can wake up in the morning to a vow,
committing to service, giving into love.
Every morning you repeat the poet’s prayer,
“Love, and don’t stop.”

Claim the land in your name (3-27-2010)

Claim the land in your name,
do not let him have the road.
Occupy your town with your grace,
even if you never leave your room.

How can a man take care of property,
if he cannot take care of the misery
in his mind?

Allow everyone to laugh out loud as you
bump your heads together, thanking things
for being as they are.

Postcard to Walt Whitman (Summer 2009?)

Dear Walt Whitman,

If only you could see how great things have become. Thank you for your works, but we didn't need to know about all of that. You never seemed to mention where you'd expect to be after all your inspiration ended and then maybe you'd take up gardening?

I'm sure you'd remain happy no matter what the outcome. Could you share a little more the instructions for obtaining such peace? Please be sure to knock down that bridge that blocks us from achieving our dreams.

-M

Some Days it is so difficult. (11-29-09)

Some days it is so difficult to find the sun within me. Denial rejects ever knowing the name of fire, and the mind is easily tempted to gamble everything away.

It becomes so hard to find the strength to wrestle this beast to the ground, demanding and proclaiming the vow of poets that true love is the only tongue you speak.

Sometimes a forgetful mind will misplace the records of wisdom that give it the will to embrace the day. It must rely on blind faith found in companions' arms, praying through love till the night becomes day, and this dark moment can surface to light, finding its way home.

In fillers of newspaper ads, one can find the words of heroes and stars. In paper, we can find the tears of a beast and the jewel in its heart.

(1-24-2010)

Songbird, teach me the nature of freedom.
Teach me of the wild dance I never knew.
I ask you to deliver me lightly into the
peace of openness, and not through
a gateway of despair.
Deliver the innocent monk from the cage
of his abbey, and show the hermit
a glow greater than candlelight.
And in your journey through the
wild night, reaching the day through song,
bring the heart along; kissing his
forehead in grace and thanks,
before he falls asleep.

(3-14-2010)

The fire your heart was burning is
not what you typically see.
Could you tell ahead of time there would
be such power in your practice, or
did you know this time you couldn't
do all the work, and the world would
embrace you instead?
It was love you were receiving when
you opened up your heart,
and you knew this.
Remember, how you got up to say,
"This is truly how I feel,"
while you take all the earned consequences.

Till we meet again my friend. (Short Story, 3-5-10)

The best friend walked up to the person who makes his title possible. It has been months. Why the silence? Nothing about it made sense.
I miss you.

I can tell.

How so?

You just told me.

Oh, I guess you're right. So why all this?

Why all what?

This silence?

What do you mean? I'm talking to you right now.

Well, yes. I guess you're right. But we haven't talked in months.

Does that bother you?

Yes! Yes it does.

Well, I'm sorry.

Don't you want to know why?

Do you want me to know?

We're best friends!

What's on your mind?

Oh, so now you want to know?

Yes, yes I do.

It bothers me because best friends are suppose to be in communication with each other.

I don't see the problem.

What's keeping you from me?

Why are you judging me?

I'm paranoid that you think badly of me.

What makes you think that?

I make me think that!

You're too hard on yourself.

I see that.

Don't judge me.

I'll try not to. I guess I'm not too good at this.

You're doing just fine.

What make you say that?

You're doing what you know how to do. What could be wrong with that?

When it comes to making a fool of myself? I think I could make you a list of reasons.

There's no need. I understand what you intended.

You're so understanding.

I don't want to brag about it.

And modest.

Lets just focus on one thing at a time.

We'll start with humility.

We'll start with being happy.

Well, I'd love to stay and chat, but I've got a lot to do today.

No problem. I'll just catch you later.

Till we meet again!

Till we meet again my friend.

It was only a dream (A short story-poem 3-3-2010)

It wasn't real, it was only a dream; but it reminded me none the less of my body, laying in the day warm water as the air vent passed through the shower curtain, imitating as if it belonged to summer.

It was a dream; but a romantic dream that created fiction, inspired from human loneliness. I thought of days when the brush of someones body, or attention of another could satisfy weeks of high romance, and the mind could survive suffering in fantasy.

It made up a story of a broken hearted girl, who believed she'd never be loved for who she was; yet she lived her life, while he found her instead; giving her the love she surrendered asking for. He kissed her in his car as it rained outside. The overtone of grey was bright enough to call it day and not a gloomy disappointment to his kiss. She no longer felt the need to hide how she enjoyed grey-skied days, as though intuitively she knew they'd would be with her, delivering her to a moment where she'd be telling herself 'I belong here, I've earned this, I deserve this.'

She took the moment and ate the abundant love, and took the consequences that it brought even if the dream didn't last the rest of her life. Her heart was cast over everything she knew, and she had workers who would sweep the entrance of its home. If her love didn't wake in the morning, there was the guarantee of the sun, or the clouds, or the sky. Her heart was cast over everything she knew. She was strong and knew how to receive the romance she constantly desired.

What made his kiss alive was that he also greeted the sun, and he practiced loving her, with or without reasons.

It wasn't real, it was only a dream, but it reminded me of myself none the less.

Vow Today...(August 2009)

Vow today that you'll demand something deeper of yourself, where your heart opens wide for the collision of your mind, into the darkness of forgotten passion. Thirst for this union and intimacy; hunger for life. Run wildly into the depths of your being, celebrating you, and I, and them, and those no longer; and delight in this madness of falling apart. Create this passion to share; and lend your heart for an hour or two till the sun goes down, and the stars come out, and the joy you experience floods the tears you’ve been hiding. Love this fragile being, and forgive all his nightmares and false dreams. Park the critic on an incline, and forget about using an emergency break. Love me, and love yourself while you're doing this. Vow to be happy and bring happiness to others and delight in the actions of service. Find your heart in the depths of my own, and cherish all that is.

(3-1-2010)

Pride in our emotions is as
familiar to us as our name.
Inflexible declarations, of how we
become ourselves, won't salvage grace
or beauty in the war for independence.
Only memories of being a fool; yet a
kind fool, a sincere fool; hold
inspiration during uncertain times.
Only empty company brings us
back to ourselves.

(2-26-2010)

Tell me all your news of love,
of triumphs over demons,
where you were crowned king over
all the levels of your being.
How did you survive through foreign
markets, shielding yourself from thieves
and those corrupted?
Tell me of the games you played that
entertained your smile in the darkest
part of night, or the loneliest
day's hour.

Brave birds...(2-25-2010)

Brave birds, flying in the snowstorm,
can you see where you are going?
Lilac bush, so bare without your leaves,
breaking in half from the weight of the snow;
did you cry when you fell or did you permit
your own demise?
Can I borrow your wisdom, or the shields
on your eyes; may I take your thoughts
as my own?

Empty the need for a companion...(2-24-2010)

don't let a poet die, or starve
in a time of famine.
If falling through a well of grief
remember all your vows of kindness.
Walk in clear paths and be gentle
when you can.
Hush now,
no more thoughts
until you can breathe
with only breath in mind.

Who am I to say you don't belong...(2-23-2010)

Close your eyes until meaning falls away.
Hold your breath no longer than the
speed of its exhale.
Allow yourself to become tired, so you
can sleep tonight.
Dream, until broken statues become
sacred again.

Today is just a day...(2-22-2010)

Today is just a day to take away the patience
and fill the passion-producing machine with
frustration, hunger, and emptiness.

Is there any variable for chaos or change, to
transform honestly, results of peace?
Bring together the mind and heart, placing
boundaries on their speech, threatening
severe punishment on the one who
strays from good intentions.

You are of the willing..(2-18-2010)

Demons do not know peace,
demanding validation and expecting
to hear answers to questions like,
"Why me?"
They scream it isn't fair and expect your pity.

You bring them to the street, but the stomachs
of every man met have never known trust.

Don't shake the hand of grief unless you're
willing to embrace him the way his mother could.
With or without a teacher or companion, the
demons will roam the streets.
Never find yourself alone in the fight, but be
prepared to be the first to speak,
telling the world how you
are of the willing.

When they held this as their own. (2-14-2010)

She cherished me because she wanted to,
because it was in her to give.
She showered me in her heart.
She knew she would receive my love,
and she understood that she was worthy.

He cherished me because he wanted to,
because every cell and pore of his entire being was compelled,
confirming the sincerity.
He showered me in his heart,
yearning for my health as cherubs fell to the ground dying in ecstasy.
He could not be consumed in doubt or concern,
knowing he too was cherished.

They did this because the spirit was in them.
They responded to the heart's cry.
They accepted love and the commitment to service
of God, or the heart, or the unknown motivator
of such chaos.
Unknowing of the end they continued to stay open
to the spirit of this holy action.
They treated this all as the highest gift
and vowed to themselves never to see it as anything less.
This vow created their action to serve,
and when they held this as their own they were happy.

Don't tell our daughters...

Don't tell our daughters of the ocean or the sea.
Don't let them know any stories about ships docking in the bay.
Don't allow our sons to hear of boats 80 times the size of a man.
Don't let him hear the muffled bass of a blow horn.
If they hear of such tales they will forever be lost in wonder, dreaming of water.

Does the sun suffer like the earth?

Does the sun place its hand over its abdomen when it wakes in the morning, or does the sun ever sleep at all? Does it roll under covers letting cyclones enter its head, lifting and dropping its radiance? Is it the sun or the illusion of clouds which shields the earth. does the sun suffer like the earth?

February 7th, 2010

I pretended to be mad in the morning. I cursed at the dull space. I put water in the kettle for tea.

I wished for better days than misery. I prayed for a miracle but expected the received silence.

Maybe tomorrow will be better, and it was until I realized it was here, and these feelings remained.

I reached for the critic, but she also wasn't in her office. I looked for hope, but with a pillow so firm it was an obstacle to fall asleep. Why doesn't her secretary take messages, "just have her call me. Have her coach me back into shape." I wondered why I depended on the romantic self-discipline. Wondering what compliment I might pay him if my tongue could cherish his actions rather than metaphors of the sun. I wondered what the sky looked like this morning, but I was too busy cursing in the tub.

Who can bare their reflection in this? Who can bare their own self-disappointment? Who knows how to be lost like this?