Four men crossing a bridge. (8-25-10)

Caught in the passion of my emotion, over petty arguments with my mother, I passed over the bridge. It was the same bridge that I stopped near, pulling the car aside from the road, to speak to my friend about my concerns of when my lovers have mistreated me. There I asked her if she thought that he might continue to think of me. She told me that he probably hasn’t allowed himself the thought. While she spoke of facts, indicating he was afraid, I watched, observing the outline of the trees in the moon’s light, wondering if a police officer might question my business there, but no patrol car ever came.

That day, I saw four men walking on the bridge in a small parade of humanity. Where were they going? Four Indian men, walking in the sun, dressed in polo’s and Khakis, and then there was I, young, observing four adults, maybe three generations, crossing a bridge, possessing grace.

I’ve been thinking of that bridge. I’ve been thinking of the past, how it smelled, how he smelled, what it felt like to have him close enough to remember the warmth coming off him, or how the moon’s light can’t outline a man’s body through the haze of a city sky. I think I was happy then in the drama of those days and nights. There was no direction, there was no wind. There was only snow, and cold, and his impulse to kiss me because it was what he wanted, and how then, and only then, he deserved me, and I him.

Was it just a ruse to the ego or heart? Was it only then that I’ll know lust and letting go, or is there, within this order, a more complex way to fall, so I might once again feel entranced with life itself? Does it require other halves, twenty marbles to fill a jar with some spaces, empty creases in between?

Get me out of the memory that says to feel the ghost’s hand, and to be alive on the floor in my room. Get me out of the mind and into a practice, preserving my name until I die. Get me down from the spirit, and into the land so I can face loneliness and love her.